You wake up every day wishing that one decent looking girl will notice you. That one of them will stop avoiding and ignoring you and come up to and say “Hi”. You want girls to stop being concerned about your weight, clothes and appreciate you for who you are—after all, isn’t that what women say: “It’s your inner beauty that counts.”?
They sleep with the biggest jerk they can find. It’s like rubbing salt in the wound. The worst part is that they complain later that they were treated like crap by this guy. Yet the same woman will say something like “I don’t care what he looks like as he’s nice.”
She’ll go and sleep with him again and again and complain how she’s being used and how he’s such a jerk! And what do they say to you? “You’re such a nice guy—but let’s just be friends…”
I’ve seen this story WAY too many times. I’ve even lived it. Doesn’t make sense, does it? If what she’s saying is true, then why does she date the jerk and not you?
I honestly felt that was the truth. I felt that women would only sleep with me if I looked like the guys in perfume ads—you know, the guys with the abs that are only achievable by 12 hours per day at the gym and a whole team of experts airbrushing the pictures.
It was impossible—but I did everything to lose weight. I joined gyms, took up several sports, ate less… wasted thousands of dollars on bogus diet programs. All for what?
I managed to lose 40 pounds in less than 6 months and about 3 sizes on my pants and I still couldn’t get laid – who am I kidding: I couldn’t even get a DATE!
It feels bad, doesn’t it? We go through all this work and girls don’t even recognize it. Meanwhile, the guys who are complete jerks still keep getting more girls in a week than you’ve had your whole life…
I figured they were on to something. So I had to find out what they were doing to get more women than their johnson could handle… And what I found out truly shocked me!
I decided to befriend a lot of these Jerks. You know, the guys who act all cool in clubs and have 30 women lining up for them. I had to know what they were on to.
So I went out to clubs and started meeting these guys. I started making friends with these guys in clubs and other events. I would just spot the guys with the most girls around him and offer him a drink for his ‘secrets’. I was surprised with what I found…
Most of them didn’t have a clue what they were doing—yet the women loved them. I thought it might be looks, but most of these guys weren’t what you’d call models. I thought it might be money, but they weren’t exactly rich—the guy with the most chicks I met had come to club by bus!
He introduced me to the world of PUA—you might have heard it before, it stands for pick up artists. I was amazed with this. These were regular guys that spend their time in forums discussing strategies and techniques for picking up women. But it wasn’t all that it was talked up to be.
I spent 2 years learning from every PUA, every forum, signing up to PAID programs. I dedicated most of my life in those two years to learning every strategy, technique and trick these guys had to share. I spent over 3,670 hours and $12,870 in learning this. And you know what I realized?
Sure, they know a lot about women… in theory! But most of those guys don’t go out and do much. In fact, the ones that do tend to be the ones that charge for it. Worse of all is that I had become one of those guys too. I knew everything in theory, but I had no practice to back it up…
I would still stutter when I talked to women. Everything I said, did and even walked seemed fake. I even did magic tricks for women—what the hell!? I really felt like I was a circus clown. And sure, those tricks got me a kiss or two, but they weren’t getting me what I wanted…
I realized that I was making a complete fool of myself and neglecting the most important thing: I wasn’t being myself! I was a scripted puppet doing what some random teenager wrote on the internet at 2am after playing games all night. Girls didn’t warm up to me—of course, what I was doing didn’t seem natural. But I knew some guys that did.
Now that I understood the basics of dating, I decided to call up my old pals: the jerks I met in the clubs. I started to go out with them again and I realized that they were much more natural in their state and they could get dozens of women in the club without having to do magic tricks or memorize complicated routines… How?
These guys were naturals. Picking up women was second nature to them. Whenever I asked them how they did it, they all gave me the same response “I don’t know man—Just be confident”.
They had no idea what they were doing… but I started to observe them in action and really learn. And that’s when I started to get results. And when you get it, you realize how easy it is to get laid with the girls you like!
I combined what I had learned from PUAs and what the Naturals were doing and I realized one thing… Read more…