It uses your talents – and if you align them with the goals that mean the most to you, you’ll find they’re vastly greater than you’ve ever dared to dream they are.
There isn’t any substitute. You can’t unleash desire because you feel you OUGHT to go for that promotion, start a business, drop a suit or dress size or quit smoking. (We’ll come to how you can unleash it to do things like that in just a moment.)
Well, if you do, forget them. They’re not your deepest goals, and they won’t do it for you.
True desire is the very opposite of willpower and determination. It’s when you do something for the sheer love of it, because something deep inside you needs you to.
I know a singer who starts each day with vocal exercises. She’s worked her way through scales, arpeggios, songs and learning new guitar chords for at least an hour before she’s even had her breakfast.
Ask her how much she practices, though, and she’ll look blank and tell you that she never does! As far as she’s concerned, she’s having fun. That hour is, to her, the best part of her day, the part that she looks forward to the most.
If not – don’t waste your time on them. Even if you do get there, they’re never going to make you happy. Do what will!
Well, let me tell you something. Success is NOT a reward for being a perfect, flawless human being. It’s the natural result of knowing yourself – of clearing out all the negative-conditioning garbage that everyone’s bombarded with until they take a stand against it and claim the right to use their mind they way they want to.
It’s the result of identifying the things that make you happiest – often things that have been buried so deeply in your mind to keep them safe from other folks’ derision it can be hard even to identify and name them – and you’ll experience an overwhelming sense of joy, relief, release and freedom once you do!
It’s the natural outcome of allying your passion, your energy, your talents and the targets that you set, with what you want most.
This site is about helping you to clear the roadblocks from your mind, so that the road opens up, fast and clear, in front of you.
No matter how big and overwhelming those roadblocks might seem right now, there are tools here that will clear them for you – with the very minimum of effort from yourself.
What if a thing you NEED to be successful in can’t do that for you? What if you need to lose weight, or stop smoking, and you find the process downright horrible?
If you’re focused on losing weight or stopping smoking, that is not your goal. No – suspend your disbelief and bear with me a moment here. It isn’t.
Your goal is to be healthy, energetic, vigorous and happy. To be fitter, and live longer. To see your kids (and theirs!) grow up and graduate, even if you don’t have children yet. To look better and be more magnetic. To stop your loved ones worrying themselves to death about you… and to save a ton of money you can spend in better ways.
To have those things, the things that matter deeply to you, you’re prepared to fight the urge to smoke or over-eat.
No matter how negative you might feel about a goal right now, this site has tools that can transform it and make it so much easier to achieve – and all you have to do is just… get out of your own way, and let them!
Your mind has two main areas – your conscious and sub-conscious, inner mind. (You have a pre-conscious mind, as well, but that’s basically a bridge between the other two, and it’s those two that we need to focus on right now.)
From regulating how you breathe and when your heart beats to providing you with ideas and inspiration that can change your world, your subconscious does the lot. It’s much bigger than your conscious mind, and it can store virtually limitless amounts of information.
In most ways, that’s terrific – but it also stores up all the mistakes you’ve ever made, and all the criticisms that you’ve ever heard (or been afraid of hearing!).
Worse still, it stores up everything you’ve ever FELT about them – all the embarrassment, or shame, or fear, or feelings of rejection – and attaches them firmly to the context where they happened.
That’s intended to protect you by preventing you from doing the same thing again. For example, if as a small child you burn your hand by touching something hot, you never need to waste a second wondering if you should repeat the error. You’ll simply shy away from it without a conscious thought.
In the context of achievement, though, that has one major drawback. We ALL make mistakes as children. Rightly or wrongly, we ALL get criticised from time to time. We’re ALL ham-fisted when we first begin to write or draw, or learn to use a hammer, or to drive a car. We ALL have failures of some kind… and we’re all embarrassed by them.
How do we UNlock all those bad feelings and get them out again, to free ourselves for happiness, success, fulfilment and achievement? How do we restore our damaged confidence and self-belief?
That’s how it’s absorbed so many self-defeating things to start with – it’s believed uncritically just what it was told.
It relies completely on the conscious mind to filter information for it. If someone tells you something that you know is wrong, your conscious mind will disbelieve it and it won’t be stored… Read more…