Dr. Gilda Carle (Ph.D.) is a Relationship Expert, Media Personality, Author, Professor, Columnist, Management Consultant, and founder of www.DrGilda.com. She has been MTV Online’s Love Doc, and Spokesperson for Harlequin Books, Hallmark Cards, Galderma Pharmaceuticals, Lavalife.com, and Match.com. She is also Match.com’s "Ask Dr. Gilda" advice columnist, which appears on MSN.com. She is currently developing several TV shows.
You can feel better, respond calmly and wisely, and enhance the outcome of your relationship and your life–NOW!
"In the years Dr. Gilda Carle counseled guests on my show, her practical advice and vibrant personality endeared her to millions of viewers. She’s the best in the business."
Robin Quivers: "And you always give good advice on these talk shows I’ve seen you on."
Most people take their mate’s cheating personally by wondering what THEY did wrong. They ask, "Why am I no longer desirable?" And they allow rejection to lower their self-esteem. When they contact me, most betrayed people say they "don’t know what to do." THIS PROGRAM SHOWS YOU WHAT TO DO — AND HOW TO WIN WHEN YOU DO IT!
If you’re suffering, and you blame yourself for something, anything, or everything, STOP! Even Hollywood beauties and heartthrobs are betrayed. Uma Thurman had no idea her husband, Ethan Hawke, was bonking their babysitter. They divorced, but the cheaters remained entwined, unmarried, and pregnant – which Uma must face forever, since she has children with Hawke. Valerie Bertanelli admitted she cheated on her hot rocker, Eddie Van Halen, during their marriage, despite his star appeal and their red carpet life. These are just two gorgeous and desirable celebs who were cheated on by those who allegedly loved them. There are countless more.
"Dr. Gilda is TV’s #1 talk-show therapist; hotter than the Sahara; part philosopher and part stand-up comic"
Nobody wants a relationship derailment. That’s why we stay stuck in unhappiness. When I was getting divorced, I had a serious car accident. A few years later, when I ended an engagement, I had another one. In both cases, I was the breakup initiator.
Someone re-named me "GUILTA" for all the suffering I sustained during my splits!! Research shows that the person who ends a romance may suffer MORE than the person s/he is leaving. But negative feelings lead to negative behavior – and in my case, they occurred behind the wheel – not a recommended release for rage.
4 Volumes, 400+ pages include: Dr. Gilda’s renowned Gilda-Grams; client stories; real e-mails sent to her from real people, with her in-you-face responses; examples of relationship hopping and relationship coping from Hollywood, the tabloids, and real folks; quizzes; self-assessments; exercises; and productive next steps.
"Dear Dr. Gilda, Thank you for writing HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS. What an eye-opener! I must tell you, every time I read something you write, I learn so much about myself. Good and Bad! But this one really changed my life. I’m back together with my husband, and our marriage is stronger than ever, ALL thanks to you!"
"Dr. Gilda, I made more progress with HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS than I did in 8 years of therapy!"
Early one morning in New York, I received calls from In Touch Magazine, People, Entertainment Tonight, Access Hollywood, Vogue Brazil, Cosmo Taiwan, Elle Hong Kong and tons of other media outlets throughout the world. Since I’m a recognizable media personality, this is nothing new for me in any typical day. However, on this day, unbeknownst to me, the following piece had been written in The Sunday Express, a British publication:
Sunday Express, Sienna Miller Seeks Shrink Over Law’s ‘Cheataholism’!, August 8, 2005, Hollywood actress Sienna Miller has reportedly sought advice from a top relationship psychotherapist over her wrecked relationship with estranged fiancé Jude Law. According to sources, Miller has consulted New York academic Dr. Gilda Carle over her lover’s affair with his children’s nanny Daisy Wright, and wants to find out reasons behind his infidelity. "Dr. Gilda has been talking to Sienna about what she has coined the ‘cheataholic’ and examining the causes for rampant infidelity," a source told the Sunday Express.
My initial response to this story was shock. I would never discuss who seeks counsel from me, or whom I service. Even my unsolicited Testimonials on my web site, with real names of real people, are posted only after I have been granted permission from the writers. So where did this leak come from?? The Brits even knew enough to call me an "academic," and I am indeed a college professor, so they obviously did their homework. Although 75% of my clientele consists of high profile people, never before has anything so revealing about any possible (or impossible) clients hit the press. While I’m forever interviewed about the behaviors of celebrities for tabloids, magazines, and entertainment shows, I never discuss whom I treat or whom I know.
By the next day, the Jude Law/Sienna Miller story hit Page Six of the New York Post, the most revered gossip column in the world. That night, . . .
Singles and marrieds both ache over betrayal. The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy warns that betrayed spouses can suffer from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)!
The Governor of New York had to leave office in disgrace because he had been a repeat procurer of prostitution businesses. Ironically, this hard-nosed official prosecuted the very businesses he patronized. During his resignation speech, his wife stood beside him, looking shell-shocked and wooden. (PSTD?)
The issue of the Governor’s hookers was not the real issue. The real issue was that his marriage had been disintegrating – and neither partner confronted this truth.
Shockingly, within JUST HOURS of the swearing in of the Governor’s replacement, the new Governor also made a carnal confession: he had had extramarital affairs "years earlier," during "a rough patch" in his marriage. He said he was "jealous" of the affair his… Read more…