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Hello. We are Kristina & Sarah and we’ve spent our lives helping women just like you heal and save their love lives.
You are on this site searching for answers. That means you are proactive– the kind of positive and determined woman any man would be LUCKY to have in his life.
We can help you today. We’ve been doing this awhile and we assure you that whatever your situation, we’ve helped a relationship come back from worse.
Before we became highly sought-out experts on men and love, we were “messes in dresses”! We had psych degrees from impressive colleges but knew nothing when it came having and sustaining real life relationships.
If you answered yes to questions above, we both know exactly how you feel. Kristina’s husband just up and left one day. He filed for divorce weeks later. Then, she was left again by a great man who, at first, called her “his miracle”.
And Sarah had dead-end relationships with men for years– relationships that all once seemed so promising.
We were always so shocked at how FAST things seemed to fall apart. We went from being pampered, praised and adored to being emotionally “dropped”.
Suddenly, we would go from being the man’s top priority to his “afterthought”: something he thought about after his children, his job, his parents, his hobbies, et.c
We’d be obsessed with a man’s behavior (what it all really meant) and we would over-think everything we said and did.
Not to mention, we would start CATERING to our distant and distracted men: more sex, more smiles, more jumping through hoops to plan the perfect date or the perfect text message.
But no matter what we tried, our men remained distant and seemingly uninspired to love us right and honor the relationship.
Most smart and successful professional women know what it takes to get ahead in business but putting in sweat, blood and tears won’t win you back a man like it will a job promotion.
You are actually rewarding him for bad behavior. You are indirectly saying, “Treat me poorly and I’ll give you more attention and fight harder for you” You have to reward a man only for good behavior, and right now, that may be hard to come by.
Now I’m not saying he won’t appreciate your efforts. He may truly be grateful for your help and attention, but your efforts won’t make you more attractive. They may even push him further away.
“Thank you for writing this guide to love. I feel like books I read about men tell you an end-result of the kind of woman a man loves but these books detail how to get there.”
It’s a natural response, when a man pulls back, to want to shut up and not do anything that would further make him “annoyed”. But when you stop speaking your mind to please a man, you look weak and FEEL weak inside, which makes you act like a DOORMAT.
When a man can sense that you aren’t comfortable opening up to him about your feelings, he feels like he isn’t doing a good job at making you feel safe.
Even if he isn’t currently making you feel safe, he still would rather hear you speak up and express your concerns, than watch you suffer silently out of fear.
Thinking that you are afraid to speak up will make him feel like the bad guy and he will pull back.
Men want to please women. It allows them to feel their “power to provide”. However…
Look, it’s human nature to get LOUDER and more DESPERATE the longer you go unheard. However, turning up the volume makes him TURN THE CHANNEL. You end up totally tuned out.
Even though you have EVERY RIGHT to feel upset about not being heard, love isn’t about who is right. It’s about doing what works, and crying, screaming, pouting or any other form of emotional reacting doesn’t work.
“I was inspired by your two’s honesty about yourselves and decided to be courageous and speak about my fears to my boyfriend. He was quiet but attentive. I felt like I was naked or like my skin was “unzipping to him”… It was like an experience I had once at church… Well, when we went to sleep later after everything, he thought I was sleeping but I heard him cry. He touched me exactly how you two taught me to touch him and how I did earlier in the night. It was a miracle. I called his sister and told her. Bless you both.”
If you love him and care about him, chances are he knows it. Playing games at this point will make him think you are childish.
Once you start playing hard-to-get like ignoring his calls on purpose, you are setting yourself up to lose him in the long-run. Games only work for a while and they totally undermine trust in a relationship. If he comes back it won’t be for long and you will have to continue playing games with him to keep him. Read more…