If you’re reading this page right now, then you’re already feeling the pain of losing someone. In fact, the two things we hear most often are, “I had no idea how much it would hurt when she left,” and “If I knew what to do to get her back, I would do it.” Most men want to stop the pain by trying to do something that will win her back. But what they usually do actually reduces their chances of success.
So your relationship has changed, and you are looking for something to repair the damage and reunite with your ex. We can show you a few simple but powerful tools that will help you get her back – by CHANGING THE WAY SHE SEES YOU and GETTING HER TO “EMOTIONALLY CONNECT” WITH YOU.
Whatever you do, DON’T: Beg for her back. Call her on the phone to try and win her back. Tell her you’ll change. Send flowers. Text how much you miss her. Try and make her jealous. Show up to places you know she goes.
If you’ve already started doing these things, STOP. To a woman, these things say you have lost confidence and are spinning out of control.
Women are drawn to men who are secure with themselves, so you need to get your confidence back and get back in control. (Don’t mistake this with being controlling.) If she left you, it’s natural to feel out of control; that’s why most men start to panic. (Trying to win her back is a sign that you’re in panic mode.) Our simple but powerful tools will move you past the panic and help you focus on yourself and your circle of control. Ironically, when you quit focusing on her and use our simple tools this will boost your confidence, put you back in control, and will dramatically increase your chances of getting your ex back.
*If you really want to get your ex back, DO NOT contact her again until you understand and implement our simple but powerful tools to connect with her.
* Studies now prove that Emotionally Connected women actually feel more loved. When she feels more love from you – you’ll get her back. She’ll also be motivated to give more love to you. What man doesn’t want that?
Here’s the deal with relationships. They are always in MOTION. You are either moving towards each other or apart. You probably didn’t recognize it when your woman distanced herself from you; that she has become EMOTIONALLY DISCONNECTED. This can happen quicker than you think.
Because nobody gave you the tools to see or recognize the signs. You didn’t know what she needed to help her stay Emotionally Connected with you. By the time you recognized there was a problem, she had already pulled away.
“The Gap” occurs if she is not continually drawn to you. Remember, that relationships are always in motion, so if she isn’t moving towards you – she’s moving away. If she moves far enough away, she Emotionally Disconnects from you. The distance between the two of you is what we refer to as “The Gap”.
“The Gap” becomes an empty space in your relationship, but it doesn’t stay empty for long. Soon it will become her holding place for anger, resentment and frustration, which are her natural reactions to not feeling connected.
When she doesn’t feel close and Emotionally Connected, you are going to be feeling something is wrong – even if you can’t identify what it is. The little things that used to bother your woman, become BIG things. Any issue, becomes an even BIGGER issue. You fought more and loved less.
If you have experienced “The Gap”, then you have also experienced the confusion and pain that always come with it. You used to be so happy together; so in love. What happened? The bigger the gap between the two of you, the more heartache and pain you will feel. That pain is intensified even more if you beak up.
If you are reading this right now, we understand what you are feeling, because we have been there too. It’s like getting the wind knocked out of you every time you think about her… How to get your ex back is the only thing you think about, it’s the only thing that matters.
What we have noticed (and now science proves), is that there are REASONS why a women stays close and drawn to the man in her life…having a long-term, happy relationship is NOT SOMETHING that happens by chance, BUT BY CHOICE.
When you choose to do those things which keep a woman Emotionally Connected to you, she actually feels more love. And when she feels more love from you, she gives more love to you. It’s really that simple…keep her connected and she’ll STAY in love with you.
“Now, I understand why she would get so ticked at me after she told me something her partners had done at work.”
“I wish that I would have known what I was doing, I thought I was helping her, instead I was driving a wedge between us. Where was this eight years ago?”
“Wow, this all makes sense. She would hold things against me for days, and I never knew why. Now I know why.”
“She blew up over the littlest thing. When we sat down and really talked she brought up that I hadn’t listened to her two weeks ago when her co-worker gossiped about her. Not knowing how to listen to a woman gets you in trouble.”
“Once I got how to emotionally connect with her, she quit being so angry at me. Maybe she was connecting to me more, but I just liked that we fought less.” Read more…