Your marriage has hit rock bottom, or worse, and I can’t promise you that things are going to turn around and be right again.
All of your hopes and dreams and expectations for the life that you would have with your spouse have all been shattered. Everything that you once held dear is now in tatters, and you are struggling to pick up the pieces.
Your days are endless, seemingly vain struggles, to hold on to one last shred of hope, and yet, everything you do seems to push you further from what you want – a joyous reunion with your spouse.
You are tense, you can’t focus, you are barely able to put on a normal face and make it through the day.
Your whole world is crashing down around you, and you don’t know where to go next – no matter what you do everything seems hopeless, and each day brings you closer to final destruction.
Right now, I am going to throw you a lifeline. These simple things that I am about to share with you will allow you to get your head above the water and help you bring your marriages up from the murky depths. Read closely and do exactly as I tell you, RIGHT NOW. Even if it seems pointless, even if it hurts your pride. If your marriage is as important to you as I think it is – there is no time to loose.
Whatever you are trying to do to save your marriage – STOP IT NOW! Whatever it is, it is obviously not working, or you would not be here reading this now. Well-meaning as it may be, what you are really doing is pushing your spouse further away. You are going to have to readjust your thinking and move in a totally new direction if you are going to bring your spouse back – possibly from the arms of another.
Let go of your pride. As we speak, your pride and the idea that you are right and your spouse is wrong is lessening the chance of your marriage ever ever being reconciled. If you are accusing your spouse of cheating, holding past hurts over his or her head, and being suspicious of your spouse at every turn, YOU ARE THE REASON THE MARRIAGE IS BROKEN. Think about it. Would you want to live the rest of your life in that kind of situation – or would you run to the open arms of that sweet, fun-loving person who accepts and respects you?
Break the chains of negativity and bring your spouse running back to be with you. Create the LOVE, DESIRE, and COMMITMENT in your marriage that you have always wanted, and ensure that your marriage will never face destruction again.
I know what you are thinking right now – "It’s too good to be true. Not my marriage, not in the shambles it is in. It is too big of a mess." But you have to have faith. You have to put your best foot forward, and at least try to salvage the dream that you once had.
I don’t know what your situation is, but in my years of experience helping married couples, I can almost guarantee that I have seen worse. And you know what? I have seen horrible marriages – ones where almost no positive communication was happening, and no warm physical contact was taking place – that have made a complete 180 degree turn and blossomed into the most beautiful, strong, supportive and loving marriages you have ever seen.
I want you to remember that as we continue on. Let that be your hope as you apply the secrets that I will share with you to save your marriage once and for all.
Or MAYBE because they still have some shred of hope that the marriage will still work out but are terribly confused…
I know that these things are hurtful. They cut straight to your heart when they come from the one you love. But if you think that you are the only one who has heard these lies…you are wrong!
They are a cry for help. You have to clear the smoke, roll up your sleeves, and do some hard work to get to the bottom of the real problems in your marriage. When you hear these words, though they may painfully stab you, and you just feel like stabbing back, STOP.
You must attack the problem at its root. You must correct the deeper issues in your marriage. You can’t just yell and scream and nag peace and happiness back in to a relationship. You’ve already tried it! It just doesn’t work!
Here is one piece of valuable insight that will help you understand the fine line you are balancing on right now:
It’s that simple. At least one of them fought for something worth fighting for, and eventually – though it probably wasn’t easy – they won. They won. Not only for themselves, but for their spouse and possibly for their children. And they are now living together stronger and happier than ever before.
It is just beautiful! And I have seen it happen over and over and over again – you and your spouse can experience it too.
My guide, "Restore Your Marriage", will change the way to look at and nurture your most important relationship – your marriage. It will help you sift through the lies and doubts, re-establish the lines of communication, and teach you how to rebuild your marriage – one brick at a time – starting at the bottom, where it is now. This guide will help you rekindle the love and reconnect, overcoming past hurts and building a healthy, strong marriage for the future.
I have seen even the most horrific, pain filled, and destructive marriages – some that even I didn’t think had a chance – turn completely around and become even more loving, caring, supportive, and intimate, just by applying the wisdom that I share in this guide. Read more…