As a man, you know why premature ejaculation is such a big deal. It takes away your sexual pleasure, and ruins the pleasure of your partner. It stops her reaching orgasm during sex. It deprives you both of the wonderful sensations of intercourse, and it brings sex to a premature, disappointing conclusion. And that’s before we’ve even mentioned how premature ejaculation can make you both feel – ashamed, angry, resentful, anxious and more. So let’s face facts: even if she says "It doesn’t matter!" the truth is a bit different – premature ejaculation matters, and it matters a lot. Fortunately, the solution is at hand……
My name is Rod Phillips, I’m 43, and I’m a sex therapist. I’ve worked with hundreds of men with premature ejaculation, ranging from those who ejaculated before they got their penis anywhere near their partner’s vagina to those who could last, with luck, for a couple of minutes after penetration.
These men were from all walks of life, all ages, shapes and sizes; some of them had just had one partner, some had experienced sex with countless women – but they all had one thing in common: they had no control over their ejaculation, and they felt lousy because of it. Even worse, a lot of these men had lost their lovers just because they had no control over their ejaculation……and that, my friend, is something I know about only too well – some years ago, a woman left me because I could only last a minute or two in bed and I didn’t even try to do anything about it….
I’ve talked to enough "quick comers" to know a few things about premature ejaculation – and how to cure it. And I’m going to share that knowledge with you – so that you can become a man with staying power, a real lover, the kind of lover who has the power to satisfy any woman in bed……the kind of lover that women adore.
But first – a few facts. You know how premature ejaculation makes you feel. Bad. Well, maybe not that bad, right? You still get the pleasure of ejaculating, whether sex lasts one minute, two, three or whatever. But what about your partner? She wants to feel you inside her. She wants to enjoy long-lasting penetration, perhaps long enough so that she can reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse. When she doesn’t get this, she feels cheated, she feels frustrated, and she feels let down….
What many men don’t understand is the simple fact that women want to be penetrated just as much as men want to penetrate – and even if she doesn’t tell you this, for her the mark of a great lover is adequate staying power – and the ability to choose when to ejaculate. How does she rate you?
So, can you imagine such a thing? To have a level of confidence and control in bed which means that you can actually choose when you ejaculate? Does that seem possible right now? Well, the truth is that being able to enjoy passionate sex for as long as you wish is the natural way to make love – and the good news is it’s easy to develop this skill. No matter how bad your premature ejaculation may be right now, you can quickly learn how to develop complete self-control….a level of control which lets you choose when to ejaculate during sex. A level of control which makes you equal with men who’ve never had premature ejaculation, men who’ve always been able to control their ejaculation, men who can fully satisfy their lovers….just as you will do when you have the same knowledge and skills.
Right now, I bet you’re wondering – can this be so easy? Well, the answer is "Yes, it can" – but I wouldn’t expect you to accept that without some evidence! After all, I know about this problem – I was a "two pump chump" once, and in my search for a cure I looked at just about everything on offer. I used my training as a scientist at Oxford University to read almost every piece of scientific research on premature ejaculation, and I talked to nine very successful sexual therapists with bags of experience in curing men with premature ejaculation. When I’d found the treatment that works most often, the one that worked for me, I then trained as a therapist so I could help other men overcome their premature ejaculation difficulties. And that’s been very satisfying – there’s nothing as good as great sex, and with this simple program we can all enjoy it!
So let me give you the benefit of my experience and knowledge, gained partly from reading all that scientific research, but mostly from curing my own premature ejaculation, and that of hundreds of other men as well….
The Quickest Cures – Pills and Potions – Won’t Work But They Will Make You Sick
There are no prescription drugs which will cure premature ejaculation. In fact, the only drugs which can slow down your ejaculation are a certain type of anti-depressants, and they have serious side-effects which, frankly, you don’t want to experience. I mean, would you really want to be nauseous for two days before and after sex – even if you could last for a whole two minutes forty-five seconds, which is what these drugs do on average? These are high-powered mood-affecting chemicals, and they have never been granted FDA approval for use on premature ejaculation. If you try and take them for premature ejaculation, you’ll get nauseous, dizzy, you’ll have diarrhea and you might even become impotent.
Here’s what Dr Gerald Brock, associate professor of medicine at St Joseph’s Health Centre in London, says of these drugs: "They’re not designed to treat PE, and they can cause nausea, fatigue and malaise in patients." The slightly slowed-down ejaculation you might get with these drugs is only one of their effects – they also cause complete loss of ejaculation, headache, tremor, fatigue, loss of erection, impotence… Read more…