I truly believe that dating is All About You! And that’s great news, because it means if you’re not happy with your dating situation…YOU have the power to change it!
My e-book It’s All About You! will show you how to start taking action toward the relationship of your dreams! It’s all about your choices, your actions, your thoughts and feelings. Energy is contagious, and like attracts like. What kind of energy are you radiating?
I will help you decide EXACTLY what you want and need in a relationship. That means helping you identify your past patterns (trust me you have them) and creating a set of personal rules to guide you through picking a better partner. No game playing involved! I’ll show you how to stop giving away your power and how to truly love yourself!
In addition to my training, I have twenty years of personal dating experience and I’m now blessed to enjoy a completely healthy, incredibly happy true partnership with a wonderful man who’s the love of my life. I want to help you find the same romantic bliss!
Donna is also one of the experts on eHow.com & ExpertVillage.com. She shared some of her advice from It’s All About You! in each of her one minute clips.
It’s All About You! is written to women to help them understand what men want. But it’s primarily about maintaining your power which Men need to do too. What’s most important for everyone is to love yourself first. No one else can truly love you until you truly love yourself.
Your thoughts, emotions and actions are your power. Maintaining and using your power properly is the key to finding and keeping a happy, healthy relationship. You have the power! You can change your situation without needing anything from anyone else. It’s all about you! When you truly accept that the only person you can and need to change is you, you’ll find happiness.
To try to put it simply, knowing your inner feelings, wants, needs and limits; and fulfilling and enforcing them without hurting others, is what healthy boundaries are all about. That means finding your true self and protecting it, no matter what, without needing anyone else’s approval. Without healthy boundaries your life and relationships are certain to have problems.
It’s All About You! will give you a check list to help identify what boundaries you’re missing. You’ll learn how too enforce proper boundaries and take care of you, so you can function in a healthy relationship. And you can attract, and recognize a healthy partner.
Your true self is your inner thoughts & emotions. Before you can protect your true self you have to know what it is. It’s All About You! will help you discover your individual emotional, physical and sexual needs, desires and limits; and show you how to never compromise them.
Whatever you’re thinking or feeling about yourself on the inside will be the energy you project on the outside. You are what you think you are. And therefore what everyone else thinks you are too.
Your thoughts create your feelings. Then your feelings cause you to act. Or react. Your actions produce your results. So if you want a different result, it really is as simple as changing your thinking. Of course I realize that’s easier said than done. It’s All About You! will show you how.
Fear is the root of all relationship evils. There is fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, fear of commitment, fear of change, fear of rejection, fear of failure, and fear of success. Everyone has fear on some level. We develop it in our childhood. But as an adult you have to become skilled at controlling your fears. If you don’t it will surface in your relationships, and cause you to act in destructive ways.
When you succumb to your fears by taking insecure action, the result is usually what you fear most. You push your partner away and they leave you. But when you’re empowered you choose to face your fears and accept responsibility for them. It’s All About You! will help you gain wisdom to make your relationships better.
If you don’t truly feel lovable how can you possibly believe or trust anyone who says they love you? Low self-esteem goes hand-in-hand with fear as the root of many relationship issues. And it’s present in epic proportions. It’s All About You! will help you truly love yourself and develop high self-esteem.
Perhaps you feel like you’ve been dating many different kinds of people, that you have no real pattern. Well, it may look that way on the surface, but upon closer examination I think you’ll see they all share certain criteria. We all have patterns. And without making a conscious effort to change your pattern you will keep attracting and choosing the same type of partners. Therefore you’ll keep getting the same result…relationships that don’t work. So it makes sense that you might believe that all relationships have problems. But you don’t have to settle for a relationship that is anything less than wonderful. I promise, if you change your pattern you can have a better, and healthier relationship!
Communication is one of three vital elements that comprise a healthy relationship. It’s largely about how effectively you express your feelings. Your delivery makes all the difference. Poor communication that uses drama and manipulation will destroy love and leave you lonely. But with the right tools and a little practice, you can find true love and happiness.
Sometimes it takes a good argument to get important issues out on the table to be worked out. But if you allow a disagreement to escalate into a dramatic fight, it will ultimately cause a break-up. So it’s essential to play fair with a powerful set of rules to make your relationship stronger.
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