Relationships are dying and marriages are failing today at alarming rates all because of a "lack of trust." If trust is an issue for you and your relationship or marriage…
Here’s How To Rebuild Trust in ANY Relationship or Marriage– even if there’s been an affair!
We’re relationship coaches Susie & Otto Collins and if trust (or lack of it) is an issue in your relationship or marriage and you want to rebuild it… We’d like to ask you a few questions about your relationship or marriage. Please answer as honestly as possible. No one will see or know your answers and we think you’ll get a lot out of this quick exercise. Here are the questions…
Are you suffering from emotional pain because you want more from your partner and your relationship and you’re not sure you can trust him or her anymore?
Are you staying in this relationship or marriage even though the trust is gone just because you don’t want to go through the pain of a break up? Do the lies seem to go on forever? Does he or she say they’ll change but nothing ever does?
Do you ever wonder what you can do to get the love you really want in this relationship or marriage?
Do you ever feel like you’re falsely accused of everything because of your partner’s jealousy or lack of trust?
If you said "YES" to any of the questions we just asked you, not only are you probably feeling a great deal of pain about your situation but you are now beginning to see that your relationship or marriage may be in more trouble than you thought as well. The good news is that there is hope and here’s what we want to share with you right now about rebuilding trust…
What you can learn from our "mistakes" that could actually help you rebuild trust and your relationship…
Today, in addition to having a great relationship between the two of us filled with with lots of love, trust and connection–we are also highly successful relationship coaches. While we are so happy to have the relationship we have and are proud to have come this far both personally and professionally– the truth is it wasn’t always this way.
At the time we’re writing this letter to you, we’ve been together nearly 12 years and before getting together and "finding" each other, we were both married to other people and were with them for quite a while. In fact, prior to getting together, Susie was married to someone else for 30 years and Otto was married to someone else for 15 years.
We didn’t realize it then, but in hindsight we made every mistake possible in our previous relationships and marriages.
We did plenty of things that were not what you would do if you wanted to have that relationship filled with plenty of trust. And still… as crazy as it may sound… as we look back on those times before getting together and think about what we each did in our previous marriages that were inappropriate for someone who wanted to create a close, connected relationship with their mate– all we can say now is–"that’s good" and here’s why…
Most people don’t learn from the mistakes they make in their relationships and life and just continue to stay stuck in old familiar patterns. That’s what we did until one day everything just clicked and in what was like a blinding flash of insight, we knew what to do to build trust in our relationship and rebuild it when we lost it.
Because of what we learned and what we’re about to share with you, you may not have to leave your current relationship or marriage in order to rebuild trust and create a closer and more connected relationship.
What we’d like to encourage you to do is to stand on our shoulders. Learn from our mistakes and start creating a better relationship starting right now…
If you want to know why being able to trust or being trustable are such big challenges in relationships today, you don’t have to look any further than your favorite media outlet. We are all being constantly bombarded in movies, television, books, magazines, newspapers, emails, music, and on the internet with the message that everyone lies and cheats–especially in committed relationships and marriages.
The airwaves and other media outlets are filled with real and made up stories of infidelity and betrayal. What we have discovered is…if you hear enough of those media messages over and over (and ALL of us have), it’s only natural that you’re going to start putting a question mark in front of everything your partner says or does. You might even be tempted to lie or cheat because it seems that "everybody’s doing it" and it’s somehow acceptable.
Because we’ve been in difficult relationship situations ourselves and because we’ve worked with hundreds of clients to help them rebuild trust and their relationships, we know what you’re probably saying to yourself right now…
"Yes, I get what you are saying. It’s true we are living in a world where it’s more difficult to trust than it used to be but that doesn’t change my situation." How do you turn trust around and rebuild it if you’re in a relationship or marriage where something really has happened to cause trust to be broken or even if trust was broken in a past relationship? What do you do then? The short answer is… we’ve just created what we think is the best and most complete program available anywhere on how to rebuild trust in a relationship or marriage that’s been broken. Our new program is called "Relationship Trust Turnaround" and if you want to start rebuilding trust and a closer and more connected relationship or marriage, here are some suggestions we’ll give to you right now…
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