2. When Chinese women are attracted to a man they will do things indirectly (much more so than a western female) to show their attraction, but without knowing the cues and signs it may pass you by. One example is if she advises you to take care of your health, or when the weather is changing to wear more clothes. This is not simply a throw-away statement on her part, as it is in western culture: she is trying to show her feelings are deeper than just simply friendship.
3. A Chinese brides expectation of marriage is based on her own culture and not necessarily yours. Don’t assume that she knows what marriage is like in your country or what will be expected of her just because you’ve heard that Chinese girls are ‘traditional’. In actual fact, the more traditional they are considered in Chinese culture, the less likely they will be able to adapt to you or your country. (note: Just because they say they are traditional, it doesn’t necessarily mean they are by the way)
4. Chinese women are seldom submissive after you really get to know them. The submissive nature you may see in the beginning months (or sometimes even years) is simply a cultural affectation that may gradually disappear and be replaced by her true character, which can be anything from generous, loving and kind, to selfish, bossy and materialistic. Find out what it truly is beforehand.
5. When dating Chinese girls the etiquette is frequently over-emphasized by them where non-Chinese males are concerned, and many suddenly become ‘ultra-traditional’, whereas with a Chinese male before, they may not have been. Breaking down this facade is therefore ‘a must’, as it can cause untold complications otherwise. Until that time you should follow the accepted Chinese dating etiquette.
6. To attract or marry a Chinese woman you must demonstrate ‘stability’, among other things. If you have a history of short term relationships it’s almost certainly best not to mention it. Even if they were when you were eighteen years old; she will simply assume you are not a good bet, and dependent on age, will be very unlikely to consider a relationship with you, no matter short-term or long-term. The majority of Chinese males I know keep their relationship history secret, and with good reason too!
7. Not all Chinese brides consider love to be an important factor in their marriage choice. Culturally in China, love and marriage have only recently become linked, and it is still far from being the norm in China. If you ask a Chinese woman you are dating or considering marriage to, if she loves you, she will almost always say "yes". This does not however necessarily mean she is thinking of the same kind of love you are thinking of. Chinese people frequently think of the word ‘love’ as almost a verb, as in if they act loving towards you and do loving things, it is sometimes equal in their minds to love. Make sure you are both on the same wavelength first if that is important to you, and learn how to find the right one….
But my biggest challenge was dating Chinese women and also marrying a Chinese bride! As well as being married in China, I’d also dated Chinese women in my own country before. But NOTHING prepared me for the complexity of attracting, dating and marrying a Chinese woman, although the benefits were great it was a real learning curve…
Amongst many other surprising situations were the woman who turned out to be another mans mistress, the woman who just wouldn’t commit in any way shape or form, yet kept hinting that she might; not to mention the usual selection of gold diggers and passport hunters that kept me busy before I worked out…
..The Hidden A, B, C of Chinese Culture & Attraction and how to spot ‘the wrong one’ a mile off!
Now, I don’t want you thinking I’m useless with women or something, because in my own country I did OK, Perhaps like you, I just always had a fascination with Chinese women.
But I found the usual rules and expectations of a relationship with a Chinese woman were almost totally different than what I had expected.
Even a lot of the stuff I read online didn’t help me much with the usual courting and dating etiquette; not to mention the subject of marriage.
I realized after many false starts and much wasted time (and money for that matter) that I could break it down into certain Chinese female character types in order to always end up with ‘the right one’. Not only that, I learned exactly how to attract almost any Chinese woman with the words I’d say and many, many other methods….
All you need to do is read ‘Chinese Dating Secrets Exposed’ and follow my winning system, I’ve done all the other work for you and laid it out in an easy to understand fashion.
many men fail with Chinese women or end up with one that just bleeds them dry in one way or another (emotionally or financially). so I put all the techniques I’ve been using for years into one easy to follow system.
In this package I reveal all you’ll ever need to know to set you on a tried and tested course to true happiness. So many other guys didn’t listen to me and then came back six months later saying:
…please don’t be like them!! There are things about Chinese women you can only know after many years of experience, and even then, they can be highly confusing.
If you want a Chinese girlfriend or Chinese wife, or wonder what’s the best kind of woman for you, then I’m here to tell you some good news:
Chinese women are great, better than any other kind of women I’ve ever dated before, but attracting the right one and marrying them is a… Read more…