You know how it usually goes. You’re out on a date with your husband and his eyes seem to wander to the blonde with the low-cut top sitting nearby or the redhead sashaying by your table.
“Hey, Prince Charming…us women spend our entire lives longing for our prince to come into our lives and make us feel beautiful. When you spend more time in our presence making other women feel beautiful instead, it’s time for you to go back to charm school."
Trying not to make a scene, though, you do what you always do when your husband looks at other women. You suffer silently and blow it off, but on the inside those thoughts once again go through your head;
“I’m not unattractive, so why do I always seem to be competing for my husband’s attention?”
Single women deal with it, too. If you’re single and your boyfriend can’t stop looking at other women, you start wondering if you’re dating a real jerk or if you are just reading way too much into your boyfriend’s wandering eyes.
Many women can’t help wondering if their husband looks at other women because he is unhappy in his marriage, not satisfied with her, or their relationship is spiraling out of control.
Here are some questions you can ask yourself about your husband looking at other women that will help you know if it is URGENT that you act quickly to protect or save your relationship.
If you can honestly say none of these things are happening between you and your husband, you may not have as much to fear as some do. But, if you sincerely can’t give a “NO” response to questions like these, if it was me, I would seek any and all help I could and as fast as I could.
Even if your relationship doesn’t dissolve, it can lead to your husband’s use and abuse of pornography and/or a decrease of sexual desire and satisfaction with YOU his wife.
Ladies, wouldn’t it be great to not have to live with your husband always looking at other women when you are around?
Wouldn’t it be great to not have to worry or wonder what he does with his eyes when you’re not around?
And POWERFUL… It isn’t the norm… It isn’t commonly known… It isn’t practiced or understood by most women…
You have to get him to turn on the right switch in his own mind. You have to get him to see you living BIG in his world and other women living small. You have to so inspire him and establish your value in his life that he isn’t interested in ogling women like other men. You have to get your man’s eyes aligned with his heart. A woman’s heart wants the love and security of knowing she is the apple in her man’s eye. A woman’s heart wants the rest and peace that comes from knowing her man only has her on his radar.
Ladies, you can have him chasing YOU, flirting with YOU, thinking longingly of YOU and wanting only YOU in his heart and in his eyes. You can get so deep into him that his heart blocks out those little distractions of other women so many men fawn over! You can make him adore YOU, and ONLY YOU!
Men are notorious for being able to touch a woman’s body but not touch her heart. Men are notorious at letting their hearts get married while their eyes still "play the field." Men are notorious for running to beauty that is fleeting with their eyes and fleeing from beauty that is lasting with their hearts.
But YOU can make his heart and his eyes connect with the powerful, intelligent, beautiful and irresistible woman standing in front of him – YOU! You can make him passionate, connected and present with his heart AND with his eyes! Don’t settle for a relationship where your man is always checking out other women and making you feel less than enough! Don’t settle for being the woman he comes home to but whose eyes went home with all the other women he visually obsessed over in his day! Don’t just accept it as being, "just the way it is" that he hangs out at his computer getting his nightly porn fix! You are of greater worth than that! You are more deserving than that! You deserve a relationship that has your husband’s heart AND his eyes focused solely on you every day!
What you will discover as we go deeper is, how the energy men spend making eye candy out of everything that comes into their viewfinders (their eyes) could be better served connecting their eyes and hearts to a moral compass of long-term values.
Get ready for some eye-opening insights on this subject that will help equip a woman to use the inner DNA she has for nurturing deep, abiding relationships to inspire her husband to this compass of long-term values, so much so, that over time, looking at other women becomes less of a pull on his life.
Ladies, it’s time to use those things that are already part of a woman’s relational DNA for nurturing deep relationships to… Capture His Attention and Elevate Your Value in His Eyes
It’s time to use the POWER a woman naturally has for relational nurturing to connect your husband’s eyes with his heart.
What men are so often given by their girlfriends or wives is the incorrect assumption that confrontation will motivate change.
When a husband looks at other women and his wife confronts him for it long enough, her hope is that he will stop doing the bad behavior and comply with her wishes.
It might feel good to the woman whose husband looks at other women to knock certain body parts up to his Adam’s Apple; it might… Read more…